You know, in the field of creating happy memories for many couples, one would think that I should have the perfect relationship. It took me a lot of time to decide to include this entry on my blog, but this is, afterall, an opportunity for you to know me for who I am.
Kimberly and I have been together for 9 years and I would say that as far as I knew, we had at least 8 great years until we moved to Jackson. We separated on this past Friday, to my disappointment and dismay. I realize that no one is perfect by any means and having a strong relationship means that both individuals MUST work at the relationship or it simply won't work. There has to be open lines of communication and absolutely no room for pride.
After begging and pleading and further committing to work on our failed relationship, there were no words I could say to help change her mind. We had failed the relationship and honestly, we failed each other.
I miss her each day that goes by and constantly wish things were different, but the fact remained, it was over.
I will try my hardest not to let this major event in my life come between my duties to you and others, but I will ask for all your thoughts and prayers as I try to make it in life as a single guy again.
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Amin, I am very sorry to hear about the seperation. If you both gave it your all to try and keep it together and that failed then i believe that God has something greater for the both of you. you have a great gift and you showed us that on Wednesday. Keep your head up, move closer to God because that is where your HELP lies. I will definitely keep you guys in my prayers but ALL IS WELL!!:)
God Bless,
Robin
Thank you so much for your concern and prayers. It because of people like you that really keep me going in such a tough time in my life. I am trying to remain focused and positive and hope that this entire process works its way through.
Hi Amin
I am truly sorry to hear about your separation. I could tell when you took our engagement session that you are a talented, caring and unique individual. So i know that you tried your hardest to make your relationship work. Dont let this situtaion stop you from doing what you love best which is making people SMILE. Just remember that if you put GOD first he will always guide you in the right direction. I will pray you and kimberly both remember that joy comes in the morning.
Mattrisa
Thank you Toya. I really appreciate your thoughts, prayers, and comments. It just seens like there IS no morning for me. This woman is all I have known for the past 9 years, so it is extremely difficult to see any light at the end of this long dark tunnel I'm in.
My entire life has been centered around her and I don't know anything else. Without her, it seems as if there is no life. It is because of the clients that I have the privelage to work with that, at least take my mind off of things, even if only for a couple of hours.
...so Thank you.